And I think that is more right than seeing it as a murder -- that's so black and white.
Last night, anti-abortion campaigners said the statistics on IVF terminations showed that some women treat babies like 'designer goods' – paying a fortune to conceive but then aborting them when they turn out not to be perfect.
The looming question, that colours every decision I make, is: what will happen to Domenica when we are no longer around to look after her?
She fears independence because she is self-aware enough to know that it will be very difficult for her.
There needs to be a recognition that a learning disability does not change from childhood to adulthood.